Showing posts with label family strengthening. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family strengthening. Show all posts

Thursday, January 01, 2015

Capture life 365–week 48

Riana and I spent a couple of days visiting with mums in the Imuka program and seeing the progress their businesses are making. Day one we drove as far as we could, then shared a boda (motorbike taxi) to get through the muddy roads that the van wouldn’t make it through. More on that later!

It was awesome to see just how far these mums have come in the time they’ve been with us.  Most have already been able to reinvest profit to expand their businesses, some have been able to put their children in school for the first time and others move into safer homes. week 48 2Pauline dries and sells mukene (small fish). She’s been able to buy supplies to start making craftwork to sell for extra income as well as build a small three room home which is much more secure and larger than the tiny room they used to live in and she can also rent one room out which adds to her income. She’s got an amazing head for business and is doing great!week 48 3week 48 4week 48 6She prepared a treat of mukene for me which I couldn’t refuse. Riana got it on all video, insisting that she video while I eat! So very kind of her. Little eyes, brains and all. A protein packed tick off my bucket list.week 48 8The problem with travelling through our villages potholed roads after the rain is that you have to pick your ‘hole’  but you don’t know how deep it is til you’re going through it. The other little problem is the mud. It’s slippery. And you slide. A lot. And if you’re on the back of the boda you naturally ask if you should get off and walk to be told “yes” by your driver who then carries on riding and sliding with you both on the back while you hold onto your phone, daughter and handbag in that order. For fear of losing them. Or landing in a compromising position with the driver. Great conditions for ducks though. Who did.not.even.move out of our way. week 48 9week 48 14So halfway back, our driver pulls over with a sheepish look on his face. We’d run out of fuel. There are NO fuel stations anywhere near where we are. Not to worry. We just tip the bike over to move the remnants of fuel into the right part of the tank. Blow into the gas hole (as demonstrated by our ‘determined not to leave us stranded’ driver above), and carry on. Making sure to turn the ignition off whenever enough speed to cruise has accumulated. We made it home with a few bonus laughs on the way!

week 48 20Thankful for screen lit laptops and thirty minutes of battery power while trying to put together an Imuka promo video.

week 48 21Day two of our visits – and it was such a joy to see Barbara and hear how far she’s come. A little of her story is included in the Imuka video which you can watch here. Gods redemptive power at work.

week 48 24One of our favourite visits was to this mum of six also looking after a grandchild and supporting her own mother. Her mum is an absolute gem and could be a stunt double for my grandmother. And that’s the truth. Except for the small difference in skin colour. In such an unexpected way, it did my heart good to spend time with her, holding hands and talking in broken sentences that I’m sure she struggled to understand just as much as I struggled to put together. From the softness of her hands, to her facial features, to the colour of her dress. This would be my Nan had she been born in Uganda. As we were about to leave she wanted to lock Riana in her room to keep her – again, something it wouldn’t seem strange for my own grandmother to do! God knew I needed that!window1A little mishap with the office keys and the need for another key from a bag inside the office meant a break in was absolutely necessary. Not to worry. Joe, Drew and Kennedy were totally onto it.

First step. Try opening the window latch with some wire.window2When that fails, try softening the putty with kerosene and chipping away at it to remove the glass in one piece.window3When you realise the putty is too old to soften anytime this year, use a glass cutter to cut a hole – just like on the movies. Except it doesn’t go quite as smoothly as they make out, so just smash the window any way you can and get that latch undone. Find a fishing rod and long piece of wood to retrieve the bag as of course it’s on the opposite side of the room to the window. window4Gently pull bag through security bars (which we found out are actually very secure!) and waa-la! Success. Go to local hardware and buy more glass and putty. Replace window and that’s a rap. As well as an afternoons entertainment.

week 48 35aBaby Cathy. melt.my.heart.

week 48 36End of year staff outing to the zoo. Deciding what they’re looking at. Not sure if it was the dried elephant dung or the crocodile remains. Their faces crack me up! Above and below!zoo1week 48 39We literally, just found a baby elephant walking around. How cool is that!!week 48 41week 48 42week 48 43week 48 44Some of our team, just going for a walk with an elephant. No big deal. We walk with elephants all the time.week 48 52Sometimes you just gotta dance. And when the music’s playing there’s no better time! Or backdrop!week 48 53We did some exploring in an old construction site built out onto Lake Victoria at the zoo. It had filled up with water from the mornings rain making it an awesome place for an impromtu photo shoot of all the families.week 48 61week 48 50week 48 57week 48 62Learning the fine art of skimming stones.week 48 51Love. his. smile! So thankful for Kennedy who helps keep our place safe and is so fun to have around!

Sunday, October 19, 2014

Capture life 365–week 41

Our week of ‘Live below the line’ is over – whew! I didn’t think that only five days of living within dramatically confined spending limits for our food would be so tiring. But it was! Not only was it a mission to work out what we could eat for the week that wouldn’t put us over our NZ$2.25 per person per day limit for all food and drink, but once we’d worked out our menu, bought our food and started we realised the most tiring part was just beginning.  Some were constantly hungry, most of us were more tired than usual, found it hard to concentrate and found it harder to be nice show tolerance to each other! Thanks to countries that send over their nearly expired goods we got 510gm Ricies for $1 (usually $12!) while they expired in June they still seemed ok - according to the younger 3 kids! We even found some cheap expired biscuits and expired instant pudding – these were great morale boosters! It definitely gave us a greater appreciation for those that have to live on so little for all their daily needs day after day. I really take my hat off to them – and as a parent knowing how hard it was for just five days to see my kids hungry, I can only imagine what it must be like not to be able to provide enough food for your family on a longer term basis.

Some of the classic Gordon quotes for the week:

Lily to one of her sisters (who will remain anonymous) “Since we’re living below the line can I still play with my toys?”  Her sisters loving reply “No, and you have to wear second hand clothes all week too”. I pointed out that she may not have realised we all wear second hand clothes anyway!

Riana at dinnertime day two “It feels so good to eat!”

When I asked one child to take a shower “Some people living below the line can’t afford to bathe”

week 41 10Drew (when he and Jed started catching white ants to eat) “We’re going to have to pay for these aye Mum, cos they have a market value”. Yep – they’re going to cost you, but at least it’s protein!week 41 7These white ants (type of termite) are a seasonal delicacy here – usually sold fried, however the boys just ate them raw as that made them cheaper!week 41 9week 41 5Some semi-serious discussion went on as to whether there’d be any meat on this huge rhino beetle Drew found. As we didn’t know how long it’d been dead for, we decided against finding out! We weren’t really that hungry!

We ended up raising $1000 for Orphans Aid International so it made our week worthwhile! Josiah had promised to dye his hair blue if we reached $1000 so we’re now on the lookout for blue hair colour!

week 41 21aWe couldn’t have finished our challenge any better if we’d tried. The day after it ended we celebrated with nine caregivers and their families who are enrolled in Imuka’s family strengthening program and were graduating from the business training course. To see the smiles on kids and parents faces as they enjoyed the graduation ceremony and Ugandan feast – to hear them now talking about their futures with hope. A simply beautiful way to end the week.week 42 38Preparing the graduation lunch – machete style!week 42 39week 41 17Some of the kids putting on an item for their mums!week 41 19Cake time!week 41 23Praying for the families as they begin their new businessesweek 41 25Thirty eight of the more than forty lives benefitting from investing in the dreams and potential of nine mums. week 41 29Joy and hope abounds!week 41 20week 41 gradMost of the mums that go through Imuka’s business training course have never finished school, with several never having been at all – to successfully complete this training is huge for them!week 41 16We give the families we work with copies of photos we take during their time with us which they absolutely love! There are so many things that a photo doesn’t show - this mama faces numerous challenges on a daily basis that most would want to run away from. Yet she is facing them head on with dignity and joy and fighting to keep her family together. An absolute champion in our eyes! week 41 32The line up for lunch begins…week 41 33week 41 34week 41 15Playtime’s always more fun with Riana! week 41 35Looking for one of the many balls that went over the fence! One ladder and three long poles tied together with a net on the end later and they were all retrieved!

Thursday, October 09, 2014

Capture life 365–week 40

week 40 2Just confirming it’s the bird he thinks it is! week 40 7week 40 8Yep – a handsome male African Gosh hawk (that was released to fly free as a bird!)week 40 9

week 40 14Pete and Kaluwe solving all the worlds problems…week 40 wristbandsLearning to make wristbands – these guys were on a roll - at the end of the day we even found the babies wearing them!

week 40 21Love the creativity of these two – making their own ‘room for two wheelchair’. No crutches needed now!week 40 23week 40 24Hide n seek!

week 40 26week 40 31Celebrating the last day of business training with pedicures and manicures for these incredibly hard working mums and grandmothers! week 40 pedi mani

week 40 40week 40 35week 40 37week 40 41Friday afternoon I took Riana to a girls bible study with her friends in Kampala which meant 3 3/4 hours of driving due to traffic – lots of time to talk on the long trip home! While driving here is never boring, it’s also often downright scary. This day was more the scary kind - on the way into the capital we came across a fatal motorbike accident just after it happened which left us somewhat subdued (accidents and bodies aren’t cordoned off here so much), then on the way home a motorbike ran into a young girl crossing the road just a metre or two in front of us as we were about to pull out into the traffic. Thankfully I was able to stop in time.  The girl was taken to hospital with possibly a broken leg – so thankful it wasn’t worse and that we weren’t part of it. We were a little jittery the rest of the way home as it was now dark which makes it much harder to see people walking or cycling or driving without headlights – but we made it home safe!!!week 40 42coffee calculation 3Josiah and Pete calculating the cost of one coffee before we start the ‘live below the line challenge.’ Some of us may have just become a little too reliant on daily coffee over the last few years and the news that we will have to choose between coffee and a meal was somewhat disappointing! However, it’s all for a good cause – helping raise money for programs designed to help families rise above poverty and provide care and education for vulnerable children in Russia, Uganda, Romania, India and Bhutan. Click here if you want to donate!

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